Key tricks in talking
19. Oktober 2011The most important trick in social relation is talking, and the most important part in talking is the ability to inspire others’ desire the talk with you. One is human being, but he can embrace the same charm as pandora .When talk with people, except to make people get interested in you, you also have the responsibility to invite them to take part in the talk. Have you ever hurt their confidence, have you ever offer the chance to people to speak out of their viewpoint. Sometime you find it is very difficult to get you objective willing to speak, may be they are very shay or difference, or stupid, the most possible reason is what you talk is beyond his interest. Such as , among the guests , there is a pandora jewelry business, and you want to make friends with him , it is likely that if you talk the topic about Pandora charm will certainly attract his attention .Getting some information about the guest’s interest before the beginning of the party from the host is very help . When you talk to people, be sure what you talked is in good rules, no matter you have a common talk with friends or give a speech to thousands of people, this rule is very important. What disturb people most is a talking without key point and regulation, the time wasted, and nothing meaning can be done. If a jewelry clerk promote his product by saying something have nothing common point with pandora bracelet, he was sure to receive a failure .Sometimes it may a way to get around to confuse the counterpart, but in general, it is likely to be a bad habit. Considering the effective in social relation, giving up this habit is necessary, it is much easier than giving up smoking, when you are aware of this tendency, keep thinking that you are paying for a distant phone, which can stop your unnecessary word. Avoiding use the word i, one should try his best to prevent himself from using the word i, it makes people think you are a person around yourself. One should talk about something related to the ornament her wears, such as her pandora earrings or her idea of the latest products in field of pandora silver .During the taking, you should pay attention to the action from people one or two times, to decide whether you continue it or stop it timely. Once an old friend who lives in two thousand miles away is going to visit me, we had not seen each other for two years. I did not except that she took her new husband back to the city. Over the dinner , he kept told jokes one by one , in fact , those jokes were terrible , but she encouraged him to go on , so when the time we say goodbye to each other , i knew nothing about her during the two years . You can image how sorry and angry i was to her new husband.